Proverbs 10:17-18
Growing up, I rarely ever got into trouble. And in those moments when I would, it was easy to push the blame onto my triplet brothers (who seemed to always be getting out of line). When I moved to college, however, I soon realized that correction is necessary for a healthy life. I no longer got my way, but was challenged and critiqued.
I learned that those who accept correction are people who are always growing and moving forward. Being disciplined is an essential part of life. Without it, we would be left alone with our (sometimes all too strong) sin nature. Can you imagine a world with no discipline? It would be utter chaos. And God knows this.
The Lord loves those he disciplines (Proverbs 3:12; Hebrews 12:6-11). A good father leads his children by training them in the right way, and God is the same with us. If he did not, then he wouldn’t really love us. God’s way and law is for our benefit. He prunes us to make and conform us into his likeness, not only for us but also for God’s glory to be seen throughout the world.
Disciplined people are on a path that leads to a full life. They welcome correction and seek out people who will challenge them. They are not intimidated to be vulnerable and open. They recognize their mistakes and learn from them. They consistently examine themselves and what they need to work on in their inner life. A disciplined person is intentional in their personal growth. They, in turn, build up others rather than tearing them down. They are close to the Father’s heart, knowing and longing to please him and serving him in all that they do. A disciplined person is on the pathway to life.