Proverbs 12: 23-24
23 The wise don’t make a show of their knowledge, but fools broadcast their foolishness.
As a younger man I sought to be noticed, recognized, and seen as valuable. I tended to lean towards a great sense of embarrassment at not knowing something or seeming unintelligent. I found great pleasure in proving myself right and vanquishing anyone who would stand in the way of me being right. As I grew in my faith, I started to recognize that my value is far beyond what I could ever understand. After all God sent his Son to be a living sacrifice to atone for my sins. My hunger for his word grew and my willingness to “win at all costs” began to wane. I became more and more convicted by the truth that I could be right or I could do right. Simply put I finally understood if I am to live as a disciple of Christ then I must do right even if that means that I could no longer hold on to being right. Instead, I must be Christ like. That is to say humble, open, and vulnerable, instead of broadcasting my foolishness in an attempt to demonstrate my own righteousness. I must be a seeker of wisdom, understanding, and listen intentionally to God as he directs my life.
24 Work hard and become a leader; be lazy and become a slave.
If we are to be Godly leaders we must sacrifice in service to others. As mentioned previously, we must seek to do right instead of just seeking to be right. Knowledge without the wisdom to apply it is folly. Next, we must seek first to understand then be understood. Many disagreements happen because we don’t understand and don’t seek clarity before becoming offended, casting judgment, or blame. Finally, we must listen with intent to others and to God. What is God saying to you today about his plans for your life? Are you calling on him and listening with intent or are your conversations with God one sided. Ultimately, to be a Godly leader we need to be less selfish and more selfless. Conversely, the lazy can and do become slaves. They become slaves to self glorification, dreams, and desires that are completely inward focused. When a person becomes a slave to their own desires and self glory they put themselves above the work of service to others. As a result they may miss out on the wonderful blessings God has for them and the opportunity to be a blessing in others lives.
In summary, I encourage you to consider four questions:
- Is it better to be right or do right?
- Is it better to be heard or to hear?
- Is it better to be understood or to understand?
- Based on your responses above do you seek to serve or be served?
Lord…I pray these words resonate and that your will be done, I pray for those who would see this, that they would know you today and forevermore. Thank you for sending your Son to redeem us Father. We are seekers of your wisdom. May we do right, listen intently and understand so that we may glorify your name.
Very beautifully written. Thank you for the kind and thoughtful encouragement. So proud of the man you have become.
Kevin
Beautifully written! I needed to read this today, I have struggled in many areas and when I leave it in Gods hands it ALL goes right…when my mind takes over I lose !!
You are an inspiration –
You are a blessing to so many and your family is so lucky to have you as a leader in the home!
With love, Kelly
Wow, very beautiful to read. I love reading things that make you reflect & question oneself. Every reader can relate to this & truly should ponder the four questions you propose to grow & become more like God. I always pray “more of you God and less of me”. I loved reading this. So proud of you Kevin!
Wow, very beautiful to read. I love reading things that make you reflect & question oneself. Every reader can relate to this & truly should ponder the four questions you propose to grow & become more like God. I always pray “more of you God and less of me”. I loved reading this. So proud of you Kevin!