Proverbs 11: 14-15
14For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.
In the individualistic society we live in, it is not only easy but natural to fall into solitary decision-making. It’s so common to feel like we have community because we have multitudes of good acquaintances—people we say hi to in passing, co-workers we have long small-talk chats with, and followers that we respond to on social media. However, the absence of depth breeds the absence of advisors.
This verse in Proverbs clearly describes the consequences of a lack of advisors. Leaders without advisors trust in their own perspectives and world views and, without the input of others, can make decisions that destroy their realm of influence. This means moms can make over-bearing or too-loose restrictions on children. A teenage girl can enter into a damaging relationship where no accountability keeps an eye on her behavior, and her friends follow suit. The pastor of a church can begin to make decisions that cease to meet the needs of the congregation at large. Even making personal life decisions without the influence and wisdom of God-seeking friends can send a life into a downward spiral that is not easily recovered. Examine your community; if you were to make a decision today that dishonors God, is there anyone in your life who would notice?
15 Whoever puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer, but whoever refuses to shake hands in pledge is safe.
Just as a leader needs trusted advisors, he should also keep watch over who he takes responsibility for. Everyone needs the love and guidance of Jesus, but as shepherds over a flock, a leader must keep watch for wolves disguised as sheep. There will be some who enter your realm of influence to destroy the good happening there; be filled with love as you lead, but keep your eyes open to the plot of the enemy.